Sexual Fox Culture
Paul Renendez and David
White
Research Paper
April 19, 2017
Sexual
Fox Culture Research and Analysis
Sexual
Fox Culture (SFC) is a private sexual culture that was founded in 2016 by David
White and Carol Oliveira. It is said to be a culture that emphasizes virginity,
monogamy, and gender cohesion with the idea to harmonize, ethicalize, and practicalize
sexuality in friendship, relationship, and society. There is an estimate of 50 initial
members in Lakeway, Austin, Texas and Sunset District, San Francisco. The core
of Sexual Fox Culture are eight principle values which will be discussed and
analyzed in this article. Before explaining the sexual culture, we will examine
how the sexual culture was initiated and created.
In
August 2016 a graduate student from The University of Texas name David White
started the sexual culture with his roommate Carol Oliveira. David White is an
architectural and graphic designer who writes a variety of stories as a hobby.
Most of his stories are erotic in nature while maintaining a theme of casual interaction
and innocence. His roommate Carol Oliveria works at a packaging company and
teaches urban dance at a dance studio. They were both roommates during David’s final
semesters at the University of Texas and enjoyed a very open and casual
relationship with each other which supposedly formed the creation of this
sexual culture.
This
culture has eight principle values which portray a variety of intrical values. The
culture believes this is a sexual culture which portrays a mix of conservative
and liberal values to create a functional sexual environment for friendships,
relationships, and society. Sexual Fox Culture’s first value is allowing
females the liberty of exhibitionism. It portrays a set of principles that
explain the nature of the culture of allowing the female gender the liberty of
completely exposing their bodies freely at any place or time. Unlike nudism,
which allows the free exposure of the body regardless of being male or female,
Sexual Fox Culture only allows for females to expose themselves freely and
without limitations. The founders believe the reason for not include male
nudity is because male arousal can be something difficult for some males to
control. We will further discuss the male arousal later on in this article.
According to David White’s analysis, he believes that females act differently
when they have the ability to expose themselves in the nude. He believes
females become more open and behave in a more natural, authentic, and
non-socially constricted way. The founder’s vision desires that both genders
maintain cohesiveness, but purposely allowing females to have the greater
ability to expose their bodies feely. The founders also believe in ethical
values deriving from values found in eastern cultures. David explains to have had
traveled to Osaka and Kyoto Japan and become familiar with a new world of
ethics and culture. He believes the values he learned abroad are part of the
fundamental ethical foundation for Sexual Fox Culture. Furthermore, when David explained
this primary cultural value, he emphasized the importance of the use of
innocence, balance, politeness, respect, consideration, and kindness towards
female participants when in the nude. In addition, Carol explains the use of
this first value will encourage females to engage in physical fitness and evaluate
a healthy physical standard of an individual evaluating their own body and the
bodies of others. She also believes this value will reshape the way society
looks at the female body and hopes to portray and recreate a more human, natural,
and nonsexual interpretation or conceptualization for the female form. Carol continues
by also explaining how she also wants this sexual culture to reflect its own
unique culture by using fashion with the use of female nudity or create a
commercial narrative of allowing nudity to be a casual medium in commercial
entertainment and advertising if it were ever to be accepted by mainstream
society.
Sexual
Fox Culture’s second value is allowing females to openly and casually
masturbate with the condition of maintaining hygiene, cleanliness, and a
certain amount of decency and decorous. In nudism, masturbation can be yet
regarded as a taboo; however, in Sexual Fox Culture female masturbation is accepted
as a common and casual activity. According to Carol, where there is nudity
there is often sexuality. She believes female masturbation should also be the
same as female nudity. She also enjoys the idea that females have a special
ability in this sexual culture that males do not have. According to both
founders, the ability for females to be nude and masturbate openly is part of the
social visual narrative for the sexual culture. However, regarding males, since
males are susceptible to arousal in the sight of female nudity and sexuality,
what would be a typical male’s reaction be to this cultural behavior? According
to David, Sexual Fox Culture emphasizes a male’s ability to have sexual
discipline. His view of how males should react in this culture is that of
casual interaction and not of sexual interest. He states that male arousal is a
natural instinctual response to mate; however, in this culture if a male
becomes very aroused, he should alleviate himself in private and remove the
instinctual desire to mate. He states that when aroused, a male’s brain is
under the influence of a complex system of different physiological, biological,
and neurological changes. He states once a male ejaculates, their normal physiological,
biological, and neurological changes returns to normal. Overall, David believes
that males, with the use of self-discipline or sexual-discipline, a male can
create a harmonious environment where males can respect females who are
casually in the nude and openly masturbating.
Sexual
Fox Culture’s third value is that all females are part of a sisterhood which
casually allows for females to engage sexually with each other. According to
Carol, female sexuality is normal and should be regarded as a friendship or
sisterly bond in which unites and brings females closer together. According to
David, females who engage sexually do not engage in reproductive risks. In
developmental psychology at a certain age, a child or teenager becomes curious
of their sexuality. In Sexual Fox Culture, exploring the differences of the
male and female gender at an early age allows an individual to grow an understanding
of their identity and the differences between genders. It’s David’s hypothesis
that if females grow in a female sexual-free environment, there will be a natural
desire to understand or seek a monogamous relationship or friendship with the opposite
gender.
The
fourth value in Sexual Fox Culture is allowing masturbation as a common and
casual activity among friends. In a close-relationship, a couple will often
engage in sexual behavior. This sexual behavior can bring them closer together,
or under erroneous circumstances, tear them apart. Sexual Fox Culture creates a
new form of close-relationships where individuals become friends first before committing
in a monogamous relationship. This form of friendship allows friends of all
genders and ages to familiarize themselves with each other and understand each
other on a personal level. Carol believes this allows for friends to discover
characteristics and behaviors of others in an open and sincere environment. Moreover,
friendships in Sexual Fox Culture allow for friends to engage in sexual
activity such as: masturbation, oral stimulation, mutual masturbation, outercourse,
and even anal penetration with each other as a casual and normal friendship
activity. The founders both believe this is how honest and sincere close-relationships
are created where individuals learn about others in a sincerely honest,
free-to-be-yourself, open, and judgmentless environment. Moreover, Sexual Fox
Culture emphasizes comfort and ethics among friends who engage in sexual activities.
The founders believe the ability to masturbate, roleplay, and engage in
foreplay, allows friends to create friendship-experiences that are extremely
close, unique, and very special. Sexual activity in this culture heavily places
emphasis on personal consent, and by giving consent to others to allow other to
engage with an individual sexually. According to David, Sexual Fox Culture
doesn’t normally find new members because he believes the sexual culture does
not reflect or even defies what mainstream society thinks, believes, and behaves
sexually. However, he explains in the rare circumstances where there is a new
member, he slowly introduces them to the culture by allowing them to feel comfortable,
give them the ability to be free to be themselves, and when under the influence
of arousal, feel free to masturbate while clothed or while hiding their body
under a blanket when they become aroused. Since the sexual culture places a
tremendous emphasis on keeping and even prizing virginity, the culture heavily disapproves
sexual intercourse without first becoming married. Members in Sexual Fox
Culture believe sexual intercourse involving genital penetration should be kept
for marriage as a method to preserving the integrity and health of a marriage. According
to the founders, they both grew up in conservative and religious households and
disapprove the idea to have multiple partners. David believes that modern dating
culture unknowingly seems to follow somewhat the nature of a swinger culture
where commonly males and females accumulate dates for sexual desire and
maintain a cycle of dating often with little intention for marriage or until an
individual believes they have found a compatible partner that appeals to the
interests that an individual is looking for. He states that because of this
desire or perhaps the addiction to sexual intercourse, partners for marriage are
difficult to find. David also addresses swinger culture by stating the nature
of swinger culture is not family-oriented and eventually becomes disharmonious
as one carries a high risk to become pregnant by a stranger, find themselves
unsure or bored of their sexual desires, switches to desiring a true monogamous
relationship, lives with regret having participated in swinging, or may find
their perception of themselves or their partners perceptually distorted. He also
continues by addressing that he has a huge respect for marriage. He agrees with
the idea that all individuals should marry and procreate. He also states that
as a romantic, if he were to ever marry, he would only marry once in his life and
never marry again for the sake of honoring the person he is married too. David
believes sexuality is sacred and should only be with the person a person loves
and are willing to commit to for the rest of an individual’s life. Overall,
David believes intercourse is the best method to keeping a marriage strong,
healthy, fresh, and special. In addition, this sexual culture also portrays and
reinforces the idea of being pro-life. The founders believe Sexual Fox Culture
can prevent undesired pregnancies through the use of its cultural values,
specifically with the use of a male’s sexual discipline. Both founders believe
intercourse is sacred. They strongly state that life is a tremendous gift and
because of intercourse and the ability to create life, intercourse should be
greatly respected. The founders share a value portrayed in Sexual Fox Culture for
a deep respect for life and creationalism. Furthermore, by allowing
masturbation among friends, David once again reinforces the idea of the use of
ethics and how an environment should be polite, respectable, innocent, have a
certain amount of decency, and be like any other casual activity among friends.
Overall, the founders believe that allowing friends to masturbate and engage sexually,
it will create an extremely close and special friendship which allows friends
the ability to be open and to choose their partners for marriage in a very
effective way.
The
fifth value in Sexual Fox Culture is the limitation of male nudity and
masturbation. Unlike nudism and the female values described in this culture,
males cannot be in the nude and openly masturbate. David states the reason for
this value is a male’s more-than-likely to have the inability to maintain
rationality and non-sexual intentions while under the influences of arousal. Males
are easily influenced by acting upon or behaving abnormally whenever under the influence
of arousal. Therefore with the casual use of female nudity, he believes males
will adapt over time to seeing female nudity and as the following generation
emerges, female nudity will be a common occurrence in daily life. Moreover, in
this culture there are places in which Sexual Fox Culture does allow male
nudity and masturbation. This sexual culture allows the use of male nudity in
the presence of their homes, properties, and vehicles. David states that if
Sexual Fox Culture were to become a mainstream culture that is tolerated or
embraced by society and law, Sexual Fox Culture would be limited to water
recreational parks, pools, lakes, average parks, beaches, movie theatres, national
preserves, and camp grounds. A large value in Sexual Fox Culture is also the
desire to maintain a pleasant visual appearance and presentation. The culture
strongly recommends males to remove unnecessary hair for the sake of public
presentation. David states that a hairless male in the nude is more pleasant to
look at than a male who is overgrown by hair. Furthermore, the values portrayed
in Sexual Fox Culture also recommends for individuals to display their bodies
freely unless if an individual is morbidly obese. It is recommended for males,
along with females, not to participate in open nudity and masturbation due to
visual appeal and presentation. Both founders believe that although natural and
acceptible, it is not something participants are used or have comfort witnessing.
In addition, and seemingly strange,
Sexual Fox Culture also encourages the loose display of male erections. Carol desires
to create the seemingly erotic idea for males to show off their genital bulges
as a tribute to prize virginity, praise arousal, appreciate marriage, and even to
use it as a form of compliment for the person they are aroused to.
The
sixth value in Sexual Fox Culture is allowing complete and open intercourse
with their married partner. Sexual Fox Culture believes in a monogomouse
marriage between a male and a female. It also respects homogeneous
partnerships. Once a couple becomes married, they are free to have intercourse at
any place at any time they desire. The founders believe this would promote
marriages, healthy families, and a healthy sexual marriage lifestyle. This
culture believes after an individual has been friends with another individual
for a long time and learns to accept and understand every detail about another,
and chooses to date and marry them, they are free to engage in intercourse
while exposing themselves completely. The culture emphasizes using wedding
rings to make this ideal, because wedding rings are a symbol of commitment.
The
seventh value in Sexual Fox Culture is gender cohesion. Sexual Fox Culture
illustrates the idea that males and females have gender cohesion, gender harmony,
or gender neutrailty to unite gender as thow genders don’t make a whole lot of
difference. The culture emphasizes male and females to share restrooms, share
dressing rooms, share clothes, shower or bathe together, and allow for the
ability to sleep together in a non-sexual way. The founders believe this is
essential for creating a pleasant and harmonious environment that enables all
members of Sexual Fox Culture to be a very close and loyal community. Carol
explains she wants to illustrate the idea that she believes both genders can
get along with each other as they learn to accept each other’s differences, faults,
flaws, vulnerabilities, and disregard any cultural, social, or stereotypical barriers
that prevent males and females from getting along and unifying. David
emphasizes the desire for both genders to not only get along and unite with
each other, but to do so as if they were a family or a collective. He articulates
this idea by stating there is a soccer team made up of the male and female
gender. The teammates on this team are extremely close like a family. The team
showers together, enjoys the company of each other, trains hard together,
travels together, and compete against other teams. When they all celebrate,
they celebrate with each other as a whole. He says he desires to use this idea as
a model for Sexual Fox Culture, where both male and female members get along well
with each other, use alternate sexual alternatives to resolve sexual desires,
and ultimately forms a close bond or community which overlooks gender
differences. He states that this idea came from his travel to Japan where he
observed some form of gender cohesion in Japanese schools where high school
students would compete in genderless teams of basketball. David states that he
felt a strong desire to create this gender harmony idea and bring it to the
west.
The
eighth and final value in this culture is the preservation of this culture. The
founders felt the need to protect this culture from becoming progressive, influenced
by different ideologies or sexual cultures, and to maintain its ethical and
integral nature.
Further
analyzing this sexual culture, it seemed relevant to ask questions regarding
the use of this culture to understand and identify the uncertainties which
could unpredictably occur within this culture or through the use of this
culture. Our first question we asked is the use of the effects on child
development. According to the founders, the sexual culture does not include
children, but they believe that just like in a nudist colony, children grow to
adapt to the culture. We then asked when can children get involved with sexual
behavior with friends and what if they are friends with an older individual,
are they allowed to engage sexually? David explained that puberty occurs around
the age of eight to thirteen in females and nine to twelve in males. When an individual
hits puberty, it’s at this point where they should already understand the
purpose of their reproductive organs, their gender identity, the importance of
respecting life, and the values of having responsibility and an understanding
of the consequences for their actions. He also states that it is alright to
make friends with any individual of any age; however, just like in mainstream
culture, sexual involvement is prohibited with minors or until the age of
seventeen. The reason David states the age of seventeen is because of the
natural age of consent in the state of Texas. He also states that the use of
this sexual culture places emphasis on ethics and integrity. Therefore, in
relation to ethics, we asked where does the ideas of ethics come from and what
is its purpose? David states that the fundamental belief in Confucianism is
where many Asian ethics derive from. Over time, eastern philosophy has adopted
Buddhism, Shintoism, and other religions and philosophies which evolved social
mentality to become more ethical and harmonious. It is this harmony David
desires to adapt as the foundation of Sexual Fox Culture. David also states his
belief in God and the Catholic-Christian faith. He explains his belief is
slightly different from the church. David states that he believes God is
everywhere and always forgives those who do wrong. Seemingly contrary to the
religious teachings, David believes that by creating this sexual culture, it is
a way to harmonize sexuality and society and overall be used for a good or
greater purpose. He believes he is answering the philosophical question as to
what kind of society can create harmony and unify people to inspire a peaceful society
removed of violence or dysfunction caused by sexual ideology. Moreover, with
his belief in God and accepting his sexual cultural belief, he believes in
forgiveness of the sins of the flesh. David even went as far as to create a
prayer asking for forgiveness for his sexual culture but to use it to do good
and to unite people for the common good. We asked David what if members in this
culture do not abide by the values of the culture and perform intercourse with
another member? David responded that if this is an individual’s choice then it
is acceptable. However, he states that such an individual would instantly not
be seen as entirely part of the sexual culture. He labeled the individuals who
perform sexual intercourse within the culture as rammies. He considers rammies as
individuals that do not value their own virginity or the virginity of another.
David continued by saying the individuals who perform such acts are also
accepted to participate as part of the sexual culture, but should also be made
known of their sexual intentions for those who want to keep their virginity for
marriage and participate in the integrity of the sexual culture. We also asked
what if females seduce a male for the sake of becoming pregnant? David
responded that it’s up to both male and female members to participate in the
integral nature of the culture and it’s their choice. The sexual culture
recommends that individuals obtain their own moral principles, sexual
self-discipline, and a personal desire to prize and keep their virginity until
marriage. With a follow-up to this question while knowing monogamous relationships
are the cultures desire with a disapproval for swinging culture, we included
the question if a married couple could include multiple partners in their
sexual activities. Both founders agreed that it’s up to the married couple,
however they both encourage married couples to engage in sexual activity with
other individuals without the use of intercourse as the use of intercourse is
strictly for their married partner. Finally, we ask how did the sexual culture
spread to San Francisco? David replied by stating he met a couple who enjoyed
and believed in the sexual nature of this culture and decided to make their own
weekend club with their own community with the use of this sexual culture.
Unfortunately, the founders are uncertain as to the true overall size of the
culture in San Francisco; however, so far David has identified 50 members as
part of the sexual culture to whom the majority lives in Austin, Texas.
After
having all the answers to our questions and having analyzed this sexual culture
we have concluded that the use of this sexual culture could prove to be a new
and effective sexual culture for an alternate lifestyle for society,
friendship, and relationship. With the use of this sexual culture, it is
possible that a society which does not prescribe to other sexual cultures or
sexual ideologies can offer a unique and different social experience unlike previously
seen in world history. In conclusion, perhaps it can prove to be worthy for
harmonizing, ethicalizing, and practicalizing sexuality in friendship,
relationship, and society.
Appendix Index:
I.
Sexual Fox Culture Masturbation
Etiquette
II.
Sexual Fox Culture’s Self-disciplined Tradition
III.
Sexual Fox Culture Seniority Hierarchy
Phase List
IV.
Prayer for the Sexual Fox Culture
Community
V.
My vision of Sexual Culture
VI.
Urban Dictionary
VII.
Sexual Fox Culture and Awareness
VIII.
Glossary and Definitions
I.
Sexual
Fox Culture Masturbation Etiquette
Open and casual masturbation in the presence of friends is normal in Sexual Fox
Culture. The culture emphasizes an acceptance for all the human emotions,
including arousal. This culture sees nudity as something normal and nothing to
be ashamed of. Sexual Fox Culture also emphasizes harmony in nudity and
sexuality. There is also an emphasis in balance when to masturbate and when not
to. In the presence of friends, Sexual Fox Culture uses various etiquettes to
create a pleasant, friendly, harmonious, and polite masturbation experience.
1) Inform others: Whenever a person becomes aroused they should casually tell
others how they are feeling. If they want to masturbate, they should let others
know what they want to do before revealing their genitals and begin
masturbating or begin masturbating with their clothes on. Being mindful of
others is important in Sexual Fox Culture, especially if other members do not
want to be in the presence of such activity.
2) Mindfulness: When given consent to masturbate, our culture expects a person
to be mindful and to perform their intimate actions without disturbing others
or perhaps performing such action discretely. By this, we mean keeping
breathing or the sounds of stroking and pleasuring very quiet. If others permit
and accept one to be as loud as they want, then they can feel free to pleasure
themselves freely and openly.
3) Casual performance: When masturbating among friends, there is a sense to
perform as if not performing. In other word, as you masturbate you continue
doing things as if not masturbating. This culture would like to see
masturbation as another casual activity among friends. An example could be if
you were studying with friends and given the permission to masturbate, you
carry on and continue studying at the same time while masturbating acting as if
it was nothing abnormal.
4) Behavior: It’s polite to talk while masturbating with friends. It’s polite
to carry normal conversations, or if desired, to talk about one’s sexual
fantasies, experiences, and about each other’s body in a polite manner and being
mindful of another’s emotions. If one is shy, it is accepted that they
masturbate with their clothes on or covered. We also encourage friends to
participate in games, roleplay, and watch adult videos together as a natural
activity. We believe this strengthens friendships. Moreover, when under the
influence of hormones and arousal, one should understand and respect that when
another is aroused, they can say or do inappropriate things. If they say or do
something wrong, it’s encouraged to ignore them, politely confront them, or
correct them and tell them what it is they are doing wrong and what is the
right thing to do or say that helps them maintain a harmonious environment.
Masturbation with friends can be a powerful experience and requires understanding
and exploration. Masturbation with friends is also about reading another’s
sexual behavior and learning about another’s sexuality. Those who perform with
respect and nobility create a harmonious masturbation environment. If others
who masturbate with little sexual self-discipline or control, it may not be
desirable to share such intimate activities with them in the future.
Masturbation with friends is about politeness, harmony, respect, sexual
self-discipline, generosity, and appreciation.
5) Consent: When masturbating with friends, it’s polite to keep to oneself. If
another wants to engage in sexual contact with another, they should do so with
another’s consent. Sexual Fox Culture does all sexual activity by consent (of
course the nature of Sexual Fox Culture prohibits the action of genital
penetration of the male and female genitals unless married because of it’s huge
emphasis on virginity and waiting for sex until marriage). In this culture we
emphasize females to make intimate moves to the male if they desire to perform
a sexual act. After a female gets consent or gives consent, they can touch each
other’s bodies freely. When touching another’s body, it’s important to be
mindful of another’s feelings and how they like to be touched. It’s about
learning the sexual psychology and physiology of another. Furthermore, males in
this culture emphasize respect for females, self-discipline, and restraint and
expect females to be the individual to ask or allow for consent to perform
sexual activities involving intimate contact or outercourse. If a female is
shy, then it is also alright as she can masturbate within her own comfort. The
use of toys is also greatly accepted. Our culture believes toys that penetrate
are a good replacement for those with the desire of having the feeling of
genital penetration. It’s considered normal for females to engage in sexual
activities with another whenever they desire. Female to female sexual activity
is common and normal in Sexual Fox Culture; however, sexual consent may also be
necessary if a female doesn’t desire such activities. In the occasion that a
male is attracted to another male, they would also have to ask for consent. If
a male declines the intimacy with another male, then they shouldn’t get upset,
but instead accept another for who they are. Our culture also encourages males
to shave all unnecessary hair from their body to keep up a well groomed
appearance and presentation. For all friends of both genders, having engaged in
such intimate experiences, it’s kind and respectable to not get angry or make
another angry but to accept another and to find other positive ways to maintain
a harmonious friendship. For married couples, our culture accepts and
encourages full intercourse with genital penetration and to display their
sexual activity freely in public without shame. When with others, it is
acceptable for couples to sexually pleasure others without intercourse.
Moreover, it is forbidden to share partners, because our culture forbids
swinger culture. Our culture would like to prize and encourage the sexual
intimacy between a husband and a wife and the creation, support, and growth of
their families.
6) Hygiene: When masturbating together with friends, having something to wipe
one’s fluids is extremely necessary. Sexual Fox Culture heavily emphasizes
cleanliness and hygiene. Although lubricants or one’s saliva is normal to use,
it’s encouraged to not show one’s use of saliva in politeness to others.
Furthermore, maintaining a hygienic and clean area is very important. When a
male finishes they are encouraged to locate a toilet, use a condom, or use a
method which does not spill their semen onto the floor, because it is
unhygienic and disrespectful. We also emphasize that a lady should also always
clean up after herself as well. It is considered very kind for the male to
clean up after the female when she finishes. It is also encouraged that members
shower with each other.
7) When finished: When a person finishes ejaculating, they should clean
themselves, wash their hands, and put their clothes back on. It is also
recommended for them to use deodorant. When finished it is also polite to talk
about their experience. Once they finish their sexual mindset will dissipate
returning them to the normal and natural mental state. After friends finish
masturbating they can resume their normal activities. Sexual Fox Culture shares
unique traditions, after friends masturbate. Our culture’s tradition are to
shower or bathe together, females to cuddle with guy friends, guy friends to
lay in the laps or the body of female friends, for all friends to nap with each
other, or for both female and male friends to cook a meal for each other or go
for a walk holding hand or have some form of close contact (like carrying
someone on their shoulders, hanging their arm around them, or holding onto
their arm).
8) Relationship: Despite such shared intimacy, there is an understanding and
emphasis on the importance of friendship. If there is a feeling of love or
intimacy after sharing such an intimate experience, it should be for the depth
of their friendship. If it’s a feeling that is much deeper and towards a
selected individual, then one should address that feeling to the person they
have those feeling for. Thus, if one desires to engage in a relationship, they
should make it known to the partner they have chosen. If unfortunately another
does not share that same feeling, it’s with nobility, kindness, and respect to
their friendship they should apologize to each other in respect to each other’s
feelings. It’s important to not take it too personal, because it deals with a
lot of personal and emotional factors and unforeseen variables. It’s with
nobility and kindness to each other they continue as friends unless the
feelings arise again to which we hope another may share a mutual feeling which
can initialize a new romantic relationship (to which also emphasizes waiting
for sex after marriage). Sexual Fox Culture believes they greater the
friendship, understanding, and respect, the more a heart can be warmed and won
over. Furthermore, Sexual Fox Culture emphasizes friendships to be the method
to finding a person one desires to seek a romantic relationship with and
hopefully a partner for life.
This concludes Sexual Fox Culture’s masturbation etiquette.
II.
Sexual
Fox Culture’s Self-disciplined Tradition
In Sexual
Fox Culture, the sexual discipline to prevent genital penetration or
intercourse is a self-discipline with a personal desire to keep one's virginity
until marriage. This is the sexual culture's main tradition and core belief
which helps maintain harmony, innocence, healthy friendly relationships, gender
cohesion, family-like values, and overall the culture's integrity among
members. Those who break this discipline and orient towards the nature of
swinger culture aren't seen as entirely part of Sexual Fox Culture, however
should still be respected, invited, and treated as any other member. However,
we call these individuals Rammies and everyone should be aware of their sexual
intentions. Those who had already experienced sexual intercourse before
entering this culture are also respected and are equal to those who prize
keeping their virginity, however if they break from tradition then they are
also seen not entirely part of the sexual culture. Overall, it's a culture of
personal and social integrity. We respect everyone for who they are and what
they believe.
III.
Sexual
Fox Culture Seniority Hierarchy Phase List
Sexual Fox Culture Phase List to
becoming part of hierarchy seniority list.
This is a phase list where participants can learn about our simple seniority
hierarchy and how to become part of that seniority status.
Phase 1: Not afraid to show bra and panties loosely and casually.
Phase 2: Females are not afraid to be topless leisurely and casually. Males
have established tolerance for female gender's body.
phase 3: Females are not afraid to be bottomless freely and casually. Females
are not afraid to incorporate nudity into their own fashion.
phase 4: Females are not afraid to be nude leisurely and casually. Males are
free to be nude or show partially nude body freely in allowed locations. Males
are also okay to masturbate while covered by a towel when in proper location.
phase 5: Both genders have sexual tolerance, uphold and prize virginity and
marriage, and have established gender cohesion and companionship.
phase 6: Females are not afraid to touch themselves openly and use toys freely
and casually. Females are okay to engage sexually with other females.
phase 7: Married couples are not afraid to engage with each other sexually in
front of others. All individuals are open to masturbating with each other and
engaging in mutual masturbation or outercourse.
phase 8: Full fox status (seniority). Seniority gets most respect and sets
example for culture. Seniority is established after all phases have been
complete. Then seniority by date becomes relative.
IV.
Prayer
for the Sexual Fox Culture Community
Every time we eat, have a picnic, or do an
outdoor activity together, this is a prayer we do.
“Lord forgive us for the sins of the flesh.
Nudity. Masturbation. Impure thoughts. Impure desires. Impure words. Impure
material. Impure mediums of entertainment. And Impure acts with another. We
wish to continue your holy will despite our shared culture. We are thankful for
our bodies and the pleasure it gives us. We pray our culture brings us closer
together, unifies us in harmony, and draws us closer to our faith. We pray for
our community and to remain brothers and sisters before the lord and to avast
from further sin beyond our culture. Amen.”
V.
My Vision of Sexual Culture
These are the golden values for my
idea of a sexual culture. They aren’t supposed to be taken seriously. I just
thought I should put my ideas out there.
I still see sexuality as a seemingly taboo topic in the United States. After
thinking about the idea for so long, I questioned the very sexual culture of
the United States and of the world. I even talked about it at DEFCON 2015 with
a group of very accepting strangers, at Burning Man 2016, and DEFCON 2016 at a
small night panel. I wonder if there is a way to harmonize sexuality into a
functional, casual, innocent, and everyday practice, and create values for a
safer and more functional way of sexual activity. If I could create a
functional and harmonized sexual culture what would it be? In this quick article
I will describe my vision of what I think sexual culture should be; something I
would like to call SFC (sexual fox culture), Bate Culture, or Disciplined
Sexuality. Members of this expression can be called Masturbatists, Batists, or
Red Tails. Another name for male participants are called Tods while female
participants are called Vixens or Lass. Here is the golden list of what my
vision for a liberal sexual culture for the United States would be like:
1. Females have freedom to be completely exposed. They can be nude anywhere
they want. I would encourage them to be shameless of the exposure of their body
at any place. I would encourage that being topless, bottomless, wearing
lingerie, or only wearing their bra or panties publicly is a common normal street
fashion and trend. I would discourage them from participating if they are
morbidly obese or may not look too visually appealing. I would encourage them
that when it’s hot outside to feel free and open to strip completely naked. If
they want to take a tan outside, they can do it anywhere free of judgment. I
also strongly encourage that the use of nudity remains innocent, polite,
considerate, and carefree. I believe female nudity should be a respected and a
natural casual social activity and norm. I think this idea will encourage
personal physical fitness and display the beautiful display of the female form.
2. All females can masturbate and pleasure themselves wherever they want as
long as they can maintain a hygienic and clean area. I would encourage them to
bring a towel and anti-germ lotion. In addition, I would like to state, I am
greatly inspired by the Chaturbate community and would love to see how the idea
of Chaturbate can form a functional sexual-harmonious society and environment
in real life. I also think it's best to ask permission within an individual's
establishment.
3. All females are part of a sisterhood. Part of a sisterhood is that they can
engage in intimate female sexual activity with each other as a natural and
casual activity. They can do this because there is no sexual harm from this
activity. I think this activity can bring females closer together.
4. I would make a masturbation culture where masturbation or outercourse is a
common activity among friends. We encourage females and males to engage in
masturbation with each other as a common friendship activity. I would encourage
mutual masturbation among the opposite genders. If others don’t want to show
their genitals, I would encourage them to use a blanket to cover their activity
or pleasure themselves with their clothes on (shy and dry masturbation). I
would make it to where touching, masturbating each other, and engaging in oral
activities is normal but only by consent. The idea of having all sexual
activities by consent will be a vital value in such pleasureful activities. I
would strongly forbid sexual penetration of the male and female genitals,
because it has the ability to create life. I would make it part of masturbation
culture to prevent such action and to respect all life. Since I also value
marriage, I think this is a good replacement for sexual activity and a good way
to create value where people prize their virginity and want to get a partner to
spend the rest of their life with and to have sexual intercourse as a way to
keep the marriage strong, special, and fresh.
5. Males would be limited in nudity and cannot participate in public
masturbation. Their nudity would be allowed only around water recreational
areas, parks, and around their property. I would encourage males to only
display nudity if they are visually pleasant by being well groomed, perhaps
completely hairless, or having minimal amount of body hair. Males would also
have to regard females with a high priority of respect while participating in
the sexual culture. I would encourage males to prize their erections as a
tribute to arousal, praise, and appreciation and to show it off freely (with
clothes on unless in an appropriate location like a water recreational area). I
would also strongly encourage males to relieve themselves in private when they
obtain a strong urge for lust, become too aroused, or have the desire to get
back to having a neutral sexuality-free mindset. They are free to masturbate
around their own property, inside their own vehicles, and in places that might
be allow for male masturbation. I would encourage places like movie theaters,
libraries, and maybe public transportation and parks).
6. Allow for complete intercourse with full penetration of the female and male
genitals that can be exposed in public after a couple has been officially
married. A good suggestion is the use of their wedding rings to make this
ideal.
7. Males and females are encouraged to participate in gender cohesion. I would
encourage males and females to share restrooms, dressing rooms, and participate
in activities that are gender opposite or gender free. I would also encourage
males and females to have the luxury of sleeping together (nonsexually) and
perhaps even groom, dress, and bathe with each other. I think this is a
possible way to harmonize genders while creating a culture where individuals
can both find partners to spend the rest of their lives with.
8. The protection of these ideas and that they keep to their core values, and
to prohibit them from being progressive. I discourage the idea of having
another Sodom and Gomora. I would like these ideas to be the unchangeable core
of the sexual culture and to not evolve into anything else that could later
demoralize innocence, decay marriage, and the human sexual experience.
In conclusion, I think this version of sexual culture can establish a code of
values to which can respect the female form and sexuality, create genders
cohesion while also encourage marriage, and can establish a functional and
harmonious sexual culture.
VI.
Urban
Dictionary Definition
A unique and private sexual culture
where members called Red Tails participate in a private culture defined by
eight core values.
There is a great deal of open female nudity and masturbation, female sisterhood
intimacy, male self discipline, male respect for female nudity and sexuality,
restriction for male nudity and masturbation, and the controversial nature that
males and female friends can masturbate with each other (or under blankets),
but cannot engage in sexual activity involving genital penetration because of a
shared respect for the creation of life. Full genital penetration of both
genders are only allowed for officially married couples only. This culture
empathizes innocence, harmony, respect, affection, kindness, politeness,
friendship, gender cohesion, gender liberty, gender appreciation, personal
freedom to act however one wants, sexual consent, and the upholding of the
traditional marriage.
The nature of this culture allows for male and female members to casually do
group activities together, relax and hang out with each other, bathe together,
groom together, dress together, and sleep (non-sexually) together.
This culture doesn't focus on the sexual aspect of the culture but rather the
gender harmony, gender liberty, personal liberties, and inseparable friendship
bonds of it's members from all walks of life. In addition there is also a
shared interest or respect for the Cristian-faith and of Buddhist and Confucian
philosophy.
Sexual Fox Culture (SFC) is a
culture in which emphasizes gender cohesion, gender liberty, personal liberty,
and a set of ethics that creates an inseparable, extremely close, and lifelong
friendships from individuals of all walks of life.
VII.
Sexual Fox Culture and Awareness:
If I could invent
an idea to spread Sexual Fox Culture on the internet it would be through web
comics, art, animation, adult videos, live streaming, and by commentary on
Youtubers where people talk about the Sexual Culture.
Comics: I would like to spread awareness by comics by
creating comics that use the nature of this sexual culture. Where comic
directors create entire comics without the use of nudity and once they finish
conceptualizing the story, they reiterate and incorporate the use of this
sexual culture.
Art: Sexual Fox Culture is probably best done in anime
form; however, it would be great to create illustrations of this culture in an
anime style.
Animation: I thought it would be a great idea to make
animations with full creative story lines that take place in a universe that
uses this culture.
Adult videos: Because of the nature of Sexual Fox
Culture, I thought it would be a good idea if others were to show their use of
Sexual Fox Culture by uploading their own videos using this culture. Sexual Fox
Culture does not use intercourse unless an individual is married; therefore,
unless a person is married, adult videos with Sexual Fox Culture would consist
of friends or individuals doing normal things while in the nude or masturbating.
I would encourage to make videos that otherwise would be seen regularly on
Youtube but having individuals participate in the videos with the use of this
culture, thus in the nude or casually masturbating.
Live streaming: Live streaming would be a good way to
spread awareness of Sexual Fox Culture. Sexual Fox Culture has been made known
to individuals in the Chaturbate community; however, would be great if more
were to participate.
Commentaries: A good way to spread the use of this
culture is by having individuals online to simply talk about it and give their
opinions on the subject.
VIII.
Glossary
and Definitions:
Confucius – A 500 BC Chinese ethical and
political philosopher.
Gender cohesion - A harmonious
relationship blend of the male and female gender with little to no regard to
sexuality, sexual preference, culture and stereotyping, and gender bias.
Gender harmony – A harmonious
relationship blend of the male and female gender with little to no regard to
sexuality, sexual preference, culture and stereotyping, and gender bias.
Gender neutral - A harmonious
relationship blend of the male and female gender with little to no regard to
sexuality, sexual preference, culture and stereotyping, and gender bias.
Generd neutrality – A harmonious
relationship blend of the male and female gender with little to no regard to
sexuality, sexual preference, culture and stereotyping, and gender bias.
Lass – Female participants, particularly
young females.
Masturbatist - Individuals who prefer masturbation rather
than intercourse.
Mutual masturbation – Two individuals
either of the opposite sex or same sex, touching each other’s penis or vagina
for pleasure and/or orgasm.
Nudism – A community of nude members.
Outercourse – A non-penetrative sexual
activity.
Red tails – An alternate name for Sexual
Fox Culture members.
Sexual
Fox Culture – Sexual Fox Culture (SFC) is a
culture in which emphasizes gender cohesion, gender liberty, personal liberty,
and a set of ethics that creates an inseparable, extremely close, and lifelong
friendships from individuals of all walks of life through eight principle
values.
Sisterhood – A community of females
who engage in sexual activity.
Swingers- A person who dates or
sleeps (sexually) with multiple individuals at the same time.
Tods – Male participants in Sexual Fox
Culture
Virginist – A person who prizes their
virginity and waits until marriage.
Vixens – Female participants in Sexual
Fox Culture